The Art of the Forbidden Kiss (For Men Only)

You must develop an intuitive understanding of what women expect and desire when making love. Doing so is a prelude to great sex.

If you want a completely stimulated partner, then you must do the stimulating!

Be her dream lover. Explore her anatomy as you talk with her. Be sweet and gentle. Choose loving words. With those words encourage her to speak aloud when it feels especially good!

Lovers generally make love to their partner the way they like to be made love to.

Notice how she touches you, cuddles next to you, and when she lets you know with barely audible sounds that you are doing it right.

For women, foreplay is an aphrodisiac; it fans the flames of sexual desire. Making love should be a total body experience.

Having hot sex needs to be seasoned with reason. Use your head! . . . and your mouth. . . and your tongue. Take it nice and easy. Be creative in your love play.

Take the plunge. Join the oral majority.

Give her a delicious climax that will have her coming back for seconds.

Kiss your lover slowly, sensually from head to toe. Body kissing can make her wet with anticipation. Sexual arousal will bring her genitals to life. Arousal is a prerequisite to great sex.

Explore some ways for increasing sexual variety. Learn the art of the forbidden kiss. Slowly make the erotic journey to that sensuous treasure between her legs. Gently brush aside her genital hair and kiss away her stress.

Give her the kind of lip service she will enjoy. This erotic stimulation will bring her heart and soul to life and drive her wild with desire. The more she can feel her desire for sex, the more fulfilling it is.

The clitoral kiss is sexual magic in the making. To make it a tasty oral treat for you, try it with a menthol or cherry drop in your mouth.

For many women, oral sex is a favorite form of sexual stimulation.

A warm tongue bathing her clitoris, moving up and down, back and forth, wildly rotating, and flickering erotically to and fro can bring more pleasure than can fingers or your penis.

It is a mistake to perform cunnilingus too gently once she is on fire.

Next time she won't say, "No," she will say, "When?"

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Copyright © 2002 - Larry James. Reprinted with permission. - This article is adapted from Larry's books, "How to Really Love the One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship," "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing" and "Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers." Author Larry James presents seminars nationally for singles and couples. Subscribe to Larry's FREE monthly "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE. Contact: CelebrateIntimacy.com, P.O. Box 12695, Scottsdale, AZ 85267-2695. LarryJames@CelebrateIntimacy.com - CelebrateIntimacy.com