Let's Play "Doctor!" (For Men Only)

Have fun with sex.

Call her from the office and ask her if she would like to play doctor. Tell her how anxious you are to make a house call.

Think hot! Wear a stethoscope and one of those funny little scrub aprons.

Carry a doctor's bag. Have your sex toys be your examining instruments.

Introducing a bag of love toys to your lovemaking session can help you get your partner ready for the big "O" and relieve you of the pressure of having to do all the work with your penis.

Women need more time and the right kind of stimulation to be ready for orgasm. Her climactic reflex is triggered by a buildup of erotic stimulation brought on by one of or a combination of the following: romantic thoughts, self-stimulation, partner-assisted masturbation, oral sex, intermittent intercourse and love toys.

The arousal level must last long enough to push her near or over the edge. Love toys can embellish the buildup time. A vibrator can provide desirable motion and stimulate in a way that the penis cannot.

After you have an orgasm, it's pretty much curtains for your penis. A woman's sexual energy can extend far beyond your own capabilities. If she wants to continue, a vibrator can come in handy.

A fully rested, responsive woman when sexually aroused can extend a single orgasm to multiple orgasms when you continue to titillate her most sexually sensitive zone. Love toys can maximize her pleasure wave when you are too exhausted to continue.

Tip:  Have extra batteries on the nightstand or wherever you perform your "examination."

Talk doctor. Remind her that "the doctor always knows best" and you are only interested in her well-being.

A good "love doctor" never asks the patient where it hurts. . . he asks, "Where does it feel good?"

Give your lover a prescription; a description of what is to come.

"Prep" together by showering together. Perform a "gentle" scrub.

Plan ahead. If you can find one, dress her in one of those gowns the doctor gives you while you are waiting in the examining room. You know, the one that flaps open in the back. It's called easy access.

Tell her the dining room table is your gurney. . . or the picnic table in the back yard. . . or the flatbed of your pickup. Several thick and fluffy blankets will make it nice and cushioney.

Offer her the cure for sexual boredom: making deliberate, wanton, passionate love.

Demonstrate your most erotic bedside manner.

Have fun with sex. It doesn't have to be only humping without words!

Find her funny spot. Make her giggle! It's okay to laugh and have some fun while you are making love. It is written: Laughter doeth good like a medicine.

Make love. Tell her she is "just what the doctor ordered!" Be someone the patient can enjoy; be her good medicine.

This session is for her! Surprise her with a session of making love that will take her far beyond all of her expectations! Variety is the spice you may need to have extraordinary hot sex.

Make your next appointment for another house call.

Or. . . next time, she can play nurse!

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Copyright © 2002 - Larry James. Reprinted with permission. - This article is adapted from Larry's books, "How to Really Love the One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship," "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing" and "Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers." Author Larry James presents seminars nationally for singles and couples. Subscribe to Larry's FREE monthly "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE. Contact: CelebrateIntimacy.com, P.O. Box 12695, Scottsdale, AZ 85267-2695. LarryJames@CelebrateIntimacy.com - CelebrateIntimacy.com