Expressing Your Love Orally

When making love flirts with ecstasy; when you near the blissful satisfaction of a healthy sexual relationship and are both experiencing the ultimate enjoyments of this pleasure zone, you can be sure that your overall relationship is on the right track. Let go! Enjoy each other.

Stretch. Take your lovemaking a step further. Innovative couples can find creative ways to embellish their shared intimacies. An oral caress can awaken your taste buds and bring xxxtasy to your lover!

The tongue is one of the most erotic, excitable, exploratory parts of the human body. A roving tongue will cause major tingles!

Using a sex toy instead of the real thing when he cannot perform and she needs sexual release takes the pressure off of him and adds stimulation of another kind to each other.

Many glorious adventures await imaginative lovers. Pushing your lovemaking to the limits can make memories that become treasures of the heart. Never settle for anything less than more and better when you make love.

One of the secrets that makes oral sex great is knowing that your lover is deriving as much pleasure from performing it as you are receiving it.

The secret is the enthusiasm they exhibit while doing it. Arousal is heightened. So, let yourself go! It is sexually stimulating to know that they love giving you pleasure.

You want to know that they are also enjoying themselves and not just doing you a favor!

Always remember, the first rule of making love is to present a body that is tastefully clean. Become a clean sex machine. Take personal hygiene seriously.

There is no greater turn-off than offensive body odors from partners who have yet to learn to offer their bodies as if on a silver platter, ready to be devoured sexually by their partner.

An unclean body can spoil the mood very quickly. Shower or bathe in scented water. Use a fragrant shampoo. To make sure unpleasant odors do not return, use an unscented deodorant. Dab a splash of your favorite cologne or perfume on or near the parts of your anatomy that might be visited by your lover.

If you smoke, don't smoke before making love or better yet, quit. Kissing someone who has just had a cigarette is like licking the bottom of an ashtray. Yuck!

Stay clear of garlic or onions before connecting with your lover. Brush your teeth. Use mouthwash. Make your whole body suitable for the sexual feast.

Clean lovers are always ready for any erotic surprises their lover may be willing to undertake.

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Copyright © 2002 - Larry James. Reprinted with permission. - This article is adapted from Larry's books, "How to Really Love the One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines for a Healthy Love Relationship," "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing" and "Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers." Author Larry James presents seminars nationally for singles and couples. Subscribe to Larry's FREE monthly "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE. Contact: CelebrateIntimacy.com, P.O. Box 12695, Scottsdale, AZ 85267-2695. LarryJames@CelebrateIntimacy.com - CelebrateIntimacy.com